Opening my eyes to winter

I used to hate the winter.

The cold (and the subsequent heavy clothes). The darkness. The snow. The ice. The silence. And how difficult it can be to get around.

I used to hate winter.

Until I read The Outermost House by Henry Beston.

For now I will just elude to it because I am reading it for a second time and taking copious notes, some of which I promise to share in future posts.

I simply want to share that Beston’s observations about the arctic bird migrations observed on the outer shores of Cape Cod in the middle of cold and dark January were enough to inspire me to give winter another chance.

Life does go on, even in the cold and darkness.

Silence does not necessarily mean an absence of life.

Those of you who read this blog regularly know of my lunchtime walks. I work in Wellesley, Massachusetts, a town with the vision to set aside beautiful walking trails in the heart of the town center. I have been walking regularly since the spring and still find new places to go.

My favorite trail is the Brook Path. The town cleared the path of snow and I was able to enjoy a gorgeous and crisp winter’s day walking past the brook. And I realized it’s just as beautiful in its own way in the cold of winter as it is in the warmth of summer.

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The sun, of course, is in a much lower position during the winter and with the absence of leaves on the trees, dances on the water in a most delightful way.

summer winter

There is a greater force in the flow of the water because of the melting snow. At times it nearly rushes despite the small size of the brook.

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There are wonderful sensations in the winter. That crunching sound under your feet as you walk. The glistening snow. And the sweet silence.

Walking introduced me to all these things and Henry Beston’s book gave me the impetus to give winter a try. The cold no longer bothers me; movement takes care of that.

I am so grateful that I can find beauty in winter. It’s very different from the carefree summer breezes, fluttering leaves and the air filled with singing birds. It’s quiet and stark, the lines somehow clearer.

Winter is a beautiful thing.

This quote from Henry David Thoreau says it all:

“It has been a glorious winter day, its elements so simple,—the sharp clear air, the white snow everywhere covering the earth, and the polished ice. Cold as it is, the sun seems warmer on my back even than in summer, as if its rays met with less obstruction. And then the air is so beautifully still; there is not an insect in the air, and hardly a leaf to rustle.” Henry David Thoreau

And when I finish  The Outermost House, I will share some of the most beautiful and poetic writing about the natural world that I have ever encountered.

Stay tuned …

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A little more than I expected – a first try at snow shoeing

A big blizzard with lots of light, powder-like snow … a crystal clear blue day and warm February sun … the fields at Tufts Veterinary School in Grafton … how could I resist not trying out my snow shoes today?

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Except …

IMG_0675It was way harder than I ever imagined! A major workout.

I had to give up after just a half hour.

Naturally I ran into a couple of seasoned users as I trudged back through the deep snow with my snow shoes off. 🙂 Still, it was lovely outside none the less.

I’ll have to try them out in the privacy of my backyard before going public again. 🙂

Do any of you go snow shoeing? What advice can you give a newbie? And yes, I know that next time, I should try a groomed trail.

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The Blizzard of 2013 (aka “Nemo”) – will this be the only one this year?

Well, the “big one” came and delivered as promised. Here’s how much we got (we’re the red dot):

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And here’s what it looked like at our house:

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Rameses needed a boost!

rameses before and after

I’m awfully glad I got snow shoes for Christmas!!

I want to give a big ‘shout out’ to our local cable station, NECN and their meteorologist, Matt Noyes. Even now he is tweeting about the major coastal flooding in Plymouth, Scituate, Hull and Cohasset (on the Massachusetts east coast) as it is happening! He is every weather nuts’ dream – a total wonk. He updates constantly on Twitter which was a real lifeline to me during Superstorm Sandy when we lost power so early in the storm. He is bold in his forecasting and has been dead on with all of these extreme storms.

Keep these folks on the coast in your prayers – many have lost power and it’s frigid outside. Scituate and Quincy have no power at all; Scituate is even experiencing communication problems with their emergency personnel.

Noyes and one of the other NECN meteorologists, Tim Kelley, were talking about the potential for another big storm around Valentine’s Day and how there have been an array of big storms that we’ve missed; in their words, “it was not a matter of ‘if’ but ‘when.'”

Yikes!

snow shoesNoyes tweeted in mid January about his long-range forecast for February and predicted it would be very cold and snowy.

Looks like my wonk will be proven right again.

Did I mention already how glad I am to have my snow shoes??

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My daughter Meredith’s graduation day

Meredith Bailey
Meredith Bailey

You’ve seen my son, now may I introduce you to my daughter? This is Meredith, and she just graduated from Framingham State University with a BS in Business Administration. She is an incredibly dedicated, tenacious hard worker, having taken nearly a full course load each semester while working 30 hours a week at Bed, Bath and Beyond as a supervisor. Yesterday was a day of celebration with both sides of the family and, the most sinful, delicious vanilla ricotta cake with chocolate icing we’ve ever had!

Meredith’s graduation marks the official end of our children in school. It didn’t really hit me until last night on the ride home from the dinner. I felt a little sad and shed a tear or two thinking of her, but my pride in her achievement was far stronger.

Family really is everything!

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What’s it like to foster kittens? Here’s an interview foster dad John from The Critter Room (reblog)

I admit it, I am totally hooked on watching live kitty cams. It is tremendous, harmless fun. Often the comments from fellow chatters is more entertaining than even the kittens.

Six of the seven - Hank is the one missing
Six of the seven – Hank is the one missing

It all started rather innocently with a text message from my son whose girlfriend alerted him to Noodles and her seven kittens. A beautiful and loving blond mother, seven beautiful kittens and a great storyline (the adventures of Runty-now-Loki) coupled with a long, slow summer at the office had me hooked.

That litter inspired me to begin this Be As One blog with this post.

Since then I have watched a handful of other litters, fostered by John of The Critter Room for Purrfect Pals shelter in Arlington, WA. Each litter had a theme which the names reflected:

scientist kittensThe Scientist Kittens

  • Marie, the mother
  • Einstein
  • Tesla
  • Darwin
  • Newton

spice kittens milk barThe Spice Kittens

  • Rosemary, the mother
  • Basil
  • Mace
  • Pepper
  • Sage

and now

ripley's kittensRipley’s Kittens (names based on characters from the movie “Alien”)

  • Ripley, the mother
  • Ash
  • Bishop
  • Parker
  • Dallas
  • Newt

What would it be like to foster a litter? How do you prevent yourself from becoming too attached?

From the Tails from the Foster Kittens blog comes an interview with John of the Critter Room where we learn what it’s like to be a foster dad:

Interview with a Fosterer – The Critter Room

Today’s interview comes from John of The Critter Room.

I first became aware of The Critter Room though his totally awesome web cam. With nearly 18,000 facebook fans and 24,000 followers to his Livestream webcam, you know he’s doing something amazingly adorable! I want to thank John for taking the time to participate! (and I admire and am amazed at the fact you kept your word on not adopting!!)

You can read the rest of the interview here.

I don’t know if I could do what John does but I’m sure glad he does it! Not only does he save countless cats and kittens, he provides entertainment and oftentimes solace and a peaceful refuge for tens of thousands of viewers each day.

There are so many ways to serve in God’s kingdom and His creatures, human and animal. John’s work is just one of them.

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Mercy for the merciless – a guest column by my good friend, M. Regina Cram

regdo bad guys wear socksI have known M. Regina Cram since high school. Her family is like my second family. The same is true for my husband. He came to know Reg first while I was friendly with her older sister Ginny first. We have all been through a lot of weddings, funerals, tragedies and births together. And all throughout those years we sang together, going through the meticulous journal of songs that Reg and Ginny kept.

I’ve known that Reg has written a regular monthly column for the Catholic Transcript, the official newspaper for the Hartford, CT diocese. Secretly I dreamed of her writing a book. And she finally did! It’s called Do Bad Guys Wear Socks? Living the Gospel in Everyday LifeI’m taking my time reading it because it is so enjoyable and someday soon I will review the book and feature an interview with Reg.

In the meantime, here’s a taste of what this book offers, from her current column in the Catholic Transcript:

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Six words. That’s all. Six simple words, but each time I uttered them, my throat tightened and my eyes burned.

“Tierney and Andrew live in Newtown.”

These six words brought me to tears many times that first week after a shooter massacred 26 people in an elementary school in Newtown, also killing his mother and, at the end, himself. Our daughter Tierney and her husband Andrew settled in Newtown after their wedding a year ago. Andrew grew up there. His family lives in town. His brother went to school with the gunman.

A few days after the shootings, I came across a familiar Bible verse. “For God so loved the world that he sent his only son . . . ”

In the light of the shootings, the verse rankled me. I mean, seriously? God loves the whole world? Everyone? He loves a man who slaughtered 20 babies and the educators who tried to protect them? Jesus died for someone like that?

You can read the article in its entirety here.

I also wrote something about Newtown which you can read here. I wish now I too had included the killer.

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Introducing my son, the songwriter!

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The Sharp Shadows featuring L to R, Max Schneller, Steve Bailey and Thomas Chalifour

My son wrote this song – he’s in the background playing the guitar and whistling ’cause he lost his voice shouting above the roar of eighteen 3 year-olds he teaches each day plus practicing with his band, Brooklyn, NY based The Sharp Shadows.

So I present Stephen Bailey and roommate Alissa Simmons singing “All That I Can Do” at the Starship Cornelia (better known as their apartment :-)):

Does this singer/songwriter’s, and mom’s heart good!

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Pain, stillness, and the blanket of consolation

This is my monthly column for Catholicmom.com.

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It’s amazing how much you can learn by being forced to lie still in your bed for two days.

That nasty Christmas virus went through our household and I got it just before New Year’s. The timing was fortunate as I had several days to rest and recover.

More like a mini flu, the only way I could find any relief from the headache, fever and nausea was to lie perfectly still in my bed with the lights out, the TV off and a pillow over my head. No noise was tolerable. This went on for two days.

In the past, a sickness like this would turn me inward, driving out all thoughts of God, and everything else. It’s as if a trap door opened under my feet and I fell into a cavern, oppressive and suffocating.

I’ve never before had a guide before to lead me out. This time I did.

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Man would I love to do this! These are some of the most stunning photos I’ve ever seen. Just think of the secrets a full moon night could tell you …

Step by Step

The temperature outside was 10 degrees with a wind chill of -11. And I still went out for  my lunch time walk. When I returned, the office manager and real estate agent on duty applauded.

I felt like applauding myself. Never in a million years did I think I would ever find myself walking in such cold weather.

Now I feel like I can do anything!

And it taught me the lesson of Step by Step. Working at something each day. Experiencing success on an incremental level. Sometimes the successes are so small, they go unnoticed. Until one day when you walk in bone-chilling weather and you enjoy it!

Walking has been an odyssey.

Walking has been a teacher.

Walking has introduced and reacquainted me with something and Someone that I love.

crocs383595_211479_lgcougar bootIt began with achy legs and bad feet being introduced to the perfect shoe, the
Mercy Croc.

It continues with the perfect boot, the Cougar Cheyenne Bootie.

It began with walking a few short feet and feeling like I was dragging a ball and chain behind me (not to mention the aching back). Now I walk over three miles and feel exhilarated.

It’s turned Spring, Summer and Fall into glorious excursions into beautiful places filled with hidden messages. It’s transformed Winter from a season I dreaded to a season I rejoice in.

Today I walked the familiar trail to Wellesley College and took pictures. I just loved comparing the seasons:

Fall and Winter trees at Wellesley College
Fall and Winter trees at Wellesley College
A ring of leaves is replaced with snow.
A ring of leaves is replaced with snow.
It's interesting what you see when the leaves are no longer there - Wellesley College tower.
It’s interesting what you see when the leaves are no longer there – Wellesley College tower.
Warm or cold, the ducks are still here.
Warm or cold, the ducks are still here.

And of course, the “Be As One” bridge:

The stone bridge, still just as pretty in winter.
The stone bridge, still just as pretty in winter.

I feel so grateful today.

Grateful for my accomplishments. Grateful for insights. Grateful for my Companion, always there, granting me blessings (often without my asking for them, as in the Mercy Crocs and boots), providing the “eyes” to see, and now, the feet to walk. Empowering me so I can be the way He meant me to be.

Step by Step works for walking. I’m learning how to apply it to writing. I’d say as a writer, I can walk a mile. I’m looking forward to the day when I can walk several, when I can write lots of words and assemble them into a book.

I’d better keep walking.

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