Smart Moves: Budget-Friendly Home-Buying & Moving Tips for Families

Guest post by Julie Morris

Image via Freepik

Buying a new home is exciting, nerve-wracking, and often expensive—especially when kids are in the mix. But with a little planning and creativity, parents can make the process more affordable without sacrificing comfort or safety.

Key Takeaways

  • Get pre-approved and know your limits.
  • Budget for moving day (and the pizza afterward).
  • Reuse, recycle, and borrow before buying anything new.
  • Think beyond the house: location, schools, and utilities matter.
  • Keep kids engaged with creative moving-day “missions.”

1. Focus on Community First

When life feels divided between mortgage paperwork, moving boxes, and restless kids, take a cue from Be as One.

Bailey’s message is simple yet profound: all the pieces of your life — work, family, art, faith — can exist together in harmony. She writes about the “many pieces of a harmonious life” as gifts from God, not distractions from it. Even when things feel disjointed, unity can emerge through gratitude, creativity, and connection.

In the context of home buying and moving, that’s powerful advice. Your move doesn’t have to feel like a rupture; it can be a renewal. Treat each stage — decluttering, budgeting, packing — as part of one harmonious whole. When the process gets messy (and it will), remember Bailey’s reminder that “nothing is meant to be hidden away.” Every stressful moment and every small victory belong in your family’s shared story of growth.

So as you label boxes and compare mortgage rates, take a breath. This is not just a move — it’s one more step toward a unified, joy-filled home life.

2. Saving Money Without Sacrificing Sanity

Families can save thousands with a few smart adjustments. Try these ideas before calling the movers:

Budget Hacks for Parents

  • Negotiate everything — from realtor commissions to inspection fees.
  • Ask about first-time-buyer programs; many states offer tax credits or low-interest loans.
  • Buy used boxes from local listings instead of new ones.
  • Get creative with furniture transport. Sometimes renting a van for two days costs less than a moving service for one.
  • Plan your move mid-month—rates are lower when demand dips.
  • Compare moving service quotes on platforms like org and PODS.com.

3. Keep Kids Comfortable During the Transition

Moving is stressful for everyone, especially little ones. Turn the move into an adventure instead of an upheaval.

Age Group How to Help Them Cope Budget-Friendly Trick
Toddlers Keep one familiar “comfort box” of toys nearby. Use reusable bins instead of cardboard—no repurchasing later.
School-age Kids Give them “packing missions” (like labeling rooms). Offer small rewards—stickers or treats, not gadgets.
Teens Let them design their new room layout. DIY decor using thrift-store finds or repainting instead of refurnishing.

4. Smart Financial Move: Protecting What You Just Bought

Homeownership brings peace of mind — until a furnace fails or a washing machine gives up. That’s where exploring home warranty options available makes sense.

A home warranty is a customizable annual plan that covers repairs or replacements for key systems and appliances, helping you manage costs from normal wear and tear. It’s not glamorous, but it can save thousands and keep family life running smoothly.

5. The Family Home-Buying & Moving Checklist

Before You Buy

  1. Review your credit report on AnnualCreditReport.com.
  2. Get pre-approved with at least two lenders to compare offers.
  3. Set a “must-have vs. nice-to-have” list with your partner and kids.

Before You Move

  1. Declutter—donate, sell, or recycle unused toys and clothes.
  2. Book movers early or rent a van before peak dates.
  3. Transfer utilities and confirm your change of address.

After You Move

  1. Deep-clean before unpacking—especially high-touch areas.
  2. Walk the neighborhood with your kids to explore local parks.
  3. Host a “snack night” picnic to meet your new neighbors.

6. Product Spotlight: Smart Packing Essentials

Families often forget one item that can save headaches: reusable vacuum storage bags. They keep clothes fresh, compress bedding, and save half your car space. Try affordable versions from IKEA, Target, or Amazon Basics. For parents juggling boxes and bedtimes, they’re a small miracle.

7. Quick FAQ

Is it better to buy a fixer-upper or move-in ready home when on a tight budget?
If you have reliable local contractors and time, a mild fixer-upper can be a smart choice. Just set aside at least 15% of your budget for unexpected repairs.

How can parents minimize stress for kids during a move?
Give them agency. Let them decorate boxes or design their new room virtually.

Should I buy new furniture right away?
Wait 30–60 days. Live in the space first; you’ll save by understanding what you need.

8. Glossary

  • Equity – The portion of your home you truly own, based on its market value minus any mortgage balance.
  • Closing Costs – Fees paid at the end of the home-buying process, including title, inspection, and loan charges.
  • Contingency – A condition in a real estate contract that must be met before the sale is finalized.
  • Pre-Approval – A lender’s written estimate of how much you can borrow for a mortgage.
  • Home Warranty – A service contract covering repair or replacement of major home systems and appliances.

Conclusion

Home-buying with kids can feel like a marathon of lists, boxes, and emotions, but with smart planning, it becomes a shared family journey—not just a transaction.

Focus on community, comfort, and creativity, and you’ll find your new home is more than an address—it’s where your family’s next chapter begins.

Budget-Friendly Self-Care: Simple Strategies for Your Well-Being

Guest post by Julie Morris

In a world where self-care can sometimes feel like a luxury, finding affordable ways to care for yourself is crucial. Prioritizing self-care doesn’t have to break the bank. By making small, intentional changes to your routine and mindset, you can cultivate well-being without overspending. Here are some budget-friendly methods to incorporate self-care into your life, ensuring you maintain a balanced and healthy lifestyle without financial strain.

Enhance Your Sleep Quality

Getting more sleep is one of the simplest and most cost-effective ways to practice self-care. Quality rest boosts your mood, improves cognitive function, and enhances overall health. Establishing a consistent sleep schedule, creating a relaxing bedtime routine, and making your sleeping environment comfortable are practical steps you can take. Ensuring you get enough rest each night sets a foundation for other self-care activities, helping you feel more energized and balanced.

Manage Your Finances

Creating a budget ensures you don’t overspend on self-care activities. Start by using free budget templates to systematically organize and manage your financial information. Give this a try to customize expense categories, set realistic budget limits, and track and monitor your expenses. This allows you to allocate funds specifically for self-care without feeling guilty or financially strained. A well-planned budget empowers you to enjoy self-care activities with peace of mind.

Discover Affordable Hobbies

Finding an affordable hobby can provide you with joy and relaxation without a hefty price tag. Whether it’s reading, gardening, drawing, or knitting, hobbies offer a creative outlet and a break from daily stressors. Engaging in a hobby can help you disconnect from work and other responsibilities, promoting mental well-being. The key is to choose activities that interest you and fit within your budget, ensuring you can enjoy them regularly.

Embrace Meditation

Meditation is a powerful tool for managing stress and promoting emotional health. You can learn to meditate at home without spending any money. Many free resources, such as online videos and apps, provide guided meditation sessions for beginners. By incorporating meditation into your daily routine, you can enhance your mental clarity, reduce anxiety, and improve overall well-being. The practice of meditation also complements other self-care activities, fostering a more holistic approach to health.

Start a Yoga Practice

Practicing yoga offers numerous physical and mental health benefits. You don’t need to join an expensive studio to enjoy yoga; many free online classes and tutorials are available to help you get started. Yoga enhances flexibility, strength, and mindfulness, making it a valuable addition to your self-care routine. Regular practice can help you manage stress, improve posture, and increase your overall sense of well-being, all without straining your budget or resources.

Exercise at Home

Exercising at home is an excellent way to stay fit without the cost of a gym membership. You can find various free workout videos online that cater to different fitness levels and interests. From bodyweight exercises to cardio routines, home workouts can be effective and enjoyable. Regular exercise improves physical health, boosts mood, and increases energy levels. By committing to a consistent home exercise routine, you can maintain your fitness without financial burden.

Stay Local and Enjoy a Staycation

A staycation can be a refreshing break without the expense of travel. Explore your local area, visit nearby parks, or simply relax at home with activities you enjoy. A staycation allows you to unwind and recharge without the stress and cost associated with travel. You can plan fun and relaxing activities that make you feel like you’re on vacation while staying within your budget. This approach helps you enjoy quality downtime without overspending.

Self-care is vital for maintaining balance and well-being. By adopting budget-friendly practices, you can nurture yourself without financial stress. These small, intentional changes foster resilience and health, helping you navigate life’s challenges more effectively. Embrace these strategies to boost your happiness and well-being without overspending, demonstrating that self-care can be both affordable and impactful.

You can find out more about Julie Morris at juliemorris.org.

Join us in building a stronger, more connected community through faith and creativity at Be as One. Explore our resources and find inspiration.

Susan Bailey, Author, Speaker, Musician on Facebook and Twitter
Read my other blog, Louisa May Alcott is My Passion

amazing grace album cover
NEW MUSIC!
Susan’s
new release, Amazing Grace” is now available!
Available on Amazon, Spotify, iTunes and YouTube

00 cover smalllouisa cover smallimaginary-heroes_cover
Purchase Susan’s books.

River of Grace Audio book with soundtrack music available now on Bandcamp.
Listen to the preface of the book, and all the songs.

00 harmony color book featured imageMany people find coloring to be a wonderful way to relax and experience harmony in their lives. Is that you? Join my Email List to subscribe to this blog and receive your free Harmony coloring book (and more).

Save

Email List link: http://eepurl.com/U-4YT

Beat Feelings Of Imposter Syndrome With These Simple Steps

Photo via Pexels

by Julie Morris

You may sometimes feel like you’re not as competent as others perceive you to be, or that your success is just a result of luck. These feelings are signs of imposter syndrome, a psychological pattern that can hold you back from achieving your true potential. Overcoming this self-doubt is crucial to stepping into your capabilities fully and confidently. In this article, courtesy of Be As One, we’ll explore some effective strategies to conquer these feelings and unlock your true potential.

Identify the Signs of Imposter Syndrome

Recognizing when you are experiencing imposter syndrome is the first step toward overcoming it. You might feel like a fraud, fear that you will not live up to expectations, or believe that your achievements are due to external factors rather than your own merit. These feelings can surface regardless of your actual success or competence. Acknowledging these thoughts as a common phenomenon can help you begin to dismantle their power over you.

Digitize to Organize

Staying organized can significantly ease the mental load that feeds imposter feelings. One practical step is to digitize important documents. By using an online tool to manage PDFs, you can compile multiple documents into a single file. This not only simplifies your information management by allowing you to add, delete, reorder, and rotate pages as needed but also clears physical and mental clutter, helping you focus more on your achievements and less on the chaos around you. This tool can be extremely helpful; check it out when you’re ready to start organizing.

Open Up About Your Feelings

Sharing your thoughts with trusted friends, mentors, or colleagues can be incredibly therapeutic. Vocalizing your feelings helps demystify them and offers a new perspective that often reveals these doubts as common and unfounded. This exchange not only provides reassurance but also strengthens your support network, reminding you that you are not alone in these experiences.

Document Your Successes

Take time to write down your achievements and the specific skills you employed to accomplish them. This practice helps you internalize your successes and recognize the competencies that enabled them. Reflecting on this list and celebrating your wins during moments of doubt can serve as a powerful reminder of your true abilities and an antidote to feelings of fraudulence.

Focus on Your Own Journey

Comparing yourself to others can intensify the feelings associated with imposter syndrome, diminishing your sense of worth and achievement. It’s crucial to shift your focus to your personal growth and progress instead. Every career path is distinct, and by concentrating on your unique journey, you can better appreciate and recognize your milestones and successes. This approach ensures you value your achievements without the distorting lens of comparison.

Embrace Mistakes as Learning Opportunities

Allow yourself to make mistakes and perceive them as part of the learning process. Each error provides insights into how to improve, which is fundamental for personal and professional growth. Understanding that perfection is unattainable and that errors are natural steps in the journey helps mitigate feelings of being an imposter.

Visualize Your Success

Practicing visualization techniques can bolster your confidence and reduce feelings associated with imposter syndrome. Imagine yourself succeeding in your tasks and roles. This mental rehearsal can prepare you psychologically to perform your best and even enjoy the process.

Seek Professional Help If Needed

If imposter syndrome severely impacts your life, it may be time to consider seeking help from a counselor or therapist. Professional guidance can provide you with tailored strategies and support to effectively overcome these deeply ingrained patterns of self-doubt. Through a structured approach, these experts can help you reclaim your confidence and empower you to face challenges with newfound strength.

Imposter syndrome is a formidable opponent, but with the right strategies, you can overcome it and reach your full potential. By understanding its signs, organizing your tasks, sharing your feelings, and more, you empower yourself to move beyond self-doubt. Remember, each step you take is progress, and every small victory is a triumph over the imposter within.

Be As One offers a variety of resources to help individuals thrive as they navigate life. Have a question for the author? Get in touch today.

Susan Bailey, Author, Speaker, Musician on Facebook and Twitter
Read my other blog, Louisa May Alcott is My Passion

amazing grace album cover
NEW MUSIC!
Susan’s
new release, Amazing Grace” is now available!
Available on Amazon, Spotify, iTunes and YouTube

00 cover smalllouisa cover smallimaginary-heroes_cover
Purchase Susan’s books.

River of Grace Audio book with soundtrack music available now on Bandcamp.
Listen to the preface of the book, and all the songs.

00 harmony color book featured imageMany people find coloring to be a wonderful way to relax and experience harmony in their lives. Is that you? Join my Email List to subscribe to this blog and receive your free Harmony coloring book (and more).

Save

Don’t Just Survive, Thrive: A Guide to Achieving Fulfillment as an Introvert 

Guest post by Julie Morris

In a world that celebrates extroverted traits, navigating life as an introvert can be challenging. However, it’s essential to remember that being an introvert is not a weakness but a different approach to life. Understanding your introverted tendencies and how they affect you can help establish a self-care plan that suits your needs. This article shared by Be As One will provide tips and strategies for creating a comprehensive self-care plan for introverts.

Establish a Consistent Routine

Introverts often thrive on consistency and predictability. A routine can provide comfort and control over your environment, reducing stress and anxiety. This routine could include waking up at the same time every day, sticking to a regular meal schedule, or setting aside specific times for work and relaxation. Remember, your routine should serve you rather than the other way around. Be flexible and adjust your schedule as needed to ensure it supports your well-being.

Allocate Ample Time for Solitude to Rejuvenate

As an introvert, solitude is not just preferred—it’s essential. Introverts recharge their energy by spending time alone, so incorporate ample alone time into your daily routine. Whether reading a book, walking in nature, or simply sitting quietly with your thoughts, these moments of solitude can help rejuvenate your mind and body.

Ensure You Set Aside Moments for Social Interactions

While introverts treasure their alone time, it doesn’t mean they should isolate themselves completely. Humans are social creatures and meaningful connections with others are crucial for our mental health. Try to find a balance between your need for solitude and social interactions. You might prefer one-on-one conversations or small gatherings rather than large parties. Remember, it’s about quality, not quantity, regarding relationships.

Engage in Energizing Activities

Find activities that energize and inspire you. These could be hobbies, exercise, creative pursuits, or anything else that brings you joy and boosts your energy levels. Engaging in such activities helps you relax and allows you to spend time in a way that aligns with your introverted nature.

Craft an Impressive and Professional Resume

Stepping onto a fresh career path can be equally exciting and overwhelming. One of your first steps in this journey should be crafting an impressive and professional resume that effectively showcases your skills, experience, and potential. A well-constructed resume can open doors to opportunities and be a powerful tool in your job search. If you need help figuring out where to start, seeking guidance on how to write a resume can be incredibly beneficial. From choosing the right format and writing

Allow Yourself the Right to Decline

As an introvert, you might feel pressured to say “yes” to every invitation or request, often leading to overcommitment and burnout. It’s important to realize that it’s okay to say no.’ Prioritize your mental health and well-being above societal expectations or obligations. Permitting yourself to decline can be liberating and contribute significantly to your self-care.

Make Restorative Sleep a Priority

Sleep plays a vital role in maintaining our physical and mental health. As an introvert, you may find your mind buzzing with thoughts at the end of the day, making it difficult to fall asleep. Establish a relaxing bedtime routine, create a peaceful sleep environment, and prioritize getting enough restful sleep.

Self-care for introverts involves understanding and honoring their unique needs and preferences. By establishing a consistent routine, prioritizing solitude, balancing social interactions, engaging in energizing activities, crafting a professional resume, allowing yourself to say ‘no,’ and prioritizing sleep, you can create a self-care plan that truly serves you. Remember, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to self-care. What matters most is finding what works best for you.

Susan Bailey, Author, Speaker, Musician on Facebook and Twitter
Read my other blog, Louisa May Alcott is My Passion

amazing grace album cover
NEW MUSIC!
Susan’s
new release, Amazing Grace” is now available!
Available on Amazon, Spotify, iTunes and YouTube

00 cover smalllouisa cover smallimaginary-heroes_cover
Purchase Susan’s books.

River of Grace Audio book with soundtrack music available now on Bandcamp.
Listen to the preface of the book, and all the songs.

00 harmony color book featured imageMany people find coloring to be a wonderful way to relax and experience harmony in their lives. Is that you? Join my Email List to subscribe to this blog and receive your free Harmony coloring book (and more).

Save

How to Get a Spiritual Boost After a Tough Work Week

I am pleased to present this guest post by Julie Morris, a life and career coach. She blogs regularly at juliemorris.org. I have a feeling her post is not just helpful for us who feel overworked but also for those of us who just feel that life is one crashing wave after another with no relief. Julie offers some wonderful practical advice. Let us know what you think with your comments!

Photo by jarmoluk
Photo by jarmoluk

Many Americans feel overworked and underpaid. We work 50+ hour weeks, hardly ever use up our vacation days, and never seem satisfied with the success we’re able to receive. All of this hard work makes for stressful work weeks, especially when your work day is spilling over into your time away from the office via constant email checking. If this is the way you’re working and living, chances are you’re exhausted. So, what can you do to boost your spirits? Here are a few tips:

Get some rest.

yoppy sleep, Flickr Creative Commons
yoppy sleep, Flickr Creative Commons

This may sound pretty basic, but the reality is many of us get far fewer than the recommended 7-9 hours of sleep each night. When you get on a healthy sleep schedule, you’ll feel less fatigued and more focused, and a more focused brain means you’ll obsess over negative thoughts less often.

Change your surroundings.

A little change in scenery can go a long way toward replenishing your spiritual self after a tough week. Go camping. The fresh air and time away from home will work wonders for your mood. Or if camping isn’t your style, get a room for the weekend at a hotel. Even if it’s in your own town, the time away from home can help you get unstuck from the rut you’re in. And if you have a four-legged family member, not to worry. Many of today’s hotels are dog-friendly. Here’s a great selection:

Embrace gratitude.

Viewminder Gratitude, Flickr Creative Commons
Viewminder Gratitude, Flickr Creative Commons

When your job is making you stressed and exhausted, it can be difficult to be grateful, but do make some time for gratitude. If you pray, say a little prayer offering your thanks for having a job that helps you provide for yourself and your family. If you don’t pray, spend a quiet moment thinking about what your job enables you to do. Spending a little time on gratitude can provide some much-needed perspective when you’re feeling overwhelmed.

Find a spot for outdoor yoga.

Yoga is great for your physical and mental health. It’s also a great excuse to get outside. No, you don’t have to practice yoga outdoors to get its amazing benefits, but when you do, you’ll probably find that you get an extra energy boost. For example, outdoor yoga will allow you to get some much-needed vitamin D. If you spend most of your day sequestered away in your cubicle chances are you probably don’t get much time in the sun, especially in winter. By going outdoors for some end-of-the-week yoga, you’ll get some vitamin D and the mental health boost that comes with it.

Don’t let your work deplete your spiritual self. When that happens, you’ll be more stressed, less innovative, and most likely less productive. Remember, working more doesn’t necessarily make you a better employee. If you aren’t able to do your best work, then you aren’t doing yourself or your employer any favors. Make time to replenish your spirit. When you do, you’ll also be refilling your passion for your work.

Save

Save

Save

Click to Tweet & ShareHow to Get a Spiritual Boost After a Tough Work Week http://wp.me/p2D9hg-1PJ

em space

 

 

just-cover-225x222

 

Susan’s latest CD, “Mater Dei” is now available!
Purchase here.

Many people find coloring to be a wonderful way to relax and experience harmony in their lives. Is that you? Join my Email List to subscribe to this blog and receive your free Harmony coloring book (and more).

River of Grace Audio book with soundtrack music available now on Bandcamp. Listen to the preface of the book, and all the songs.

Susan Bailey, Author, Speaker, Musician on Facebook and Twitter
Read my other blog, Louisa May Alcott is My Passion

 

Save

Save

Save

Save

Save

Got cold feet? I have a cheap, easy and quick solution for you!

I did say I would write about anything on this blog. 🙂

When I figure out a solution to a problem, I love to tell people about it. And this solution worked so well and is so easy to execute that I just had to share. And it regards–feet! Continue reading “Got cold feet? I have a cheap, easy and quick solution for you!”